Dealing with Friends

One only understands the things that are tame. Men have no more time to understand anything. They buy things all ready made at the shops. But there is no shop anywhere where one can buy friendship, and so men have no friends any more.

Tame- it is an act often neglected. It means to establish ties.

If you want a friend, tame him/her. . .
You must be very patient, First you will sit down at a little distance from him/her. and as the days pass, you will sit a little closer to him/her.

Words are the source of misunderstanding.
And I know that it is true. During my 1st year in HighSchool, I often get in trouble because of the words I say. Even though I do not mean to say anything that can hurt them.

Dealing with friends is not as esay as you think it is.
We all know that people has different characteristics that make them unique. Some may be moody, others are so mysterious, but inspite of this differences we make friends with them.

having a friend does not mean that both of you share same character or behavior. Even twins are different form each other.

This differences may be an advantage or disadvantage.

Advantage:
= you will not be bored with each other
= you can discover new things because of your different character as a person

Disadvantages:
= this differences may be a source of misunderstanding and commotion between you and your friend.

When you talk about misunderstanding, it is normal in a friendship. you know, friendship will not be complete without any debate between you two.

But sometimes, this despute conversations leads to a more big decision- ending of the friendship.
I have friends that took them one and a half year to forgive each other and beacome friends again. even though they move in the same place, they never talk and it seems like each of them does not see each other.
Fortunately, after they forgive each other, they beacme the best of friends.

Freindship is not measured by the quantity but more important is the quality.
Me as I person, also have friends. I think, it is alreday four years that we share laughters, sadness and even are most embarrasing moments in life. we celebrate Christmas with each other. we often go to the house of our friend during his/her birthday. it is such a wonderful thing that I know that I have friends always there beside me and will catch me each time I fall.

Friends can go in different way. It is a relationship that you will not expect to happen. Even though we are different from each other, dealing with our friends can be hard and full of excitement but in the end if you will get his/her trust, you can be the best of friends that will support each other and share every moment of your lives.

_jmvrico_

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