WHAT MATTERS MOST

Inherent in us is the ability to love...and be love. It’s one of the basic needs of every human being…And I still believe that even the worst criminal in some moments of reflections feels the need to love someone and be loved truly. One could not even underestimate the power of love. We heard a lot of stories how people would forsake everything in the name of love...and yet personally I feel that, it seems, in reality love is not enough to hold a relationship that will last forever...or perhaps people would usually mistakenly think that the strong feelings and attraction they have for each other is love, and then to find out later that it was only an infatuation. www.marsvenus.com

How then could we differentiate or recognize if we are truly in love or just infatuated? www.relationshipheadquarters.comAnd if face with the dilemma to chose, how do we chose someone to share our life forever, (hopefully). Especially if you are a woman, how do you choose, and what really matters most to us? What are the considerations? www.lovingyou.com.,www.marsvenus.com

Looking around us, we know that divorce rate is increasing and so much is going on around that threatened every family relationship or love relationship. As I consider the trend of society now days, it makes me feel so insecure with regards to expecting a relationship that will last long or forever. www.relationshipgold.com To me it is not a matter of trust anymore towards the man I love; it is the environment that I do not trust anymore. As I see, moral values has gone down so low, that one has to be rooted strongly to the right values in order for one to remained true and loyal.

The other day, a friend called me for advice, she is asking whom will she choose with the three boyfriends she has? The first thing that came out in my mouth…choose the one with lots of money. Of course, it was a joke, although I feel it is one of the considerations she has to look at. Because I now believe and realize that couples could not live together forever through love alone.www.money-health-relationships.com., Family needs financial stability, and if you always struggle for money and if there is no food in the table, no money to pay the bills, possibility is the relationship would go down the drain. Because it is either both of you will be too engrossed in looking for money you forget to give time to each other, and money will be the focus and priority so that it will already be detrimental to a growing relationship… www.daveramsey.com/the_truth_about/money_and_relationships

I do not say that chose money over love, what I am saying is… one of the considerations that should be given attention when choosing someone to marry is the financial capability of the individual…it is not being materialistic but rather it is being realistic. Whether you agree with me or not, fact is, money is the tool that gives you comfort in life. I do not agree that money is the root of all evil, it is the love of money that is.
Therefore, work hard and earn money, but love your family more than money. www.affirmware.com.au/

What matters most is the love, coupled with the right principle of being financially stable to support a family…Before embarking to a new chapter in your life, you have to be emotionally and financially prepared, because it will not always be the two of you, sooner or later children will come along, and what would you provide them? www.girl.com.au/money-hurting-your-relationship

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