The Art of Letting Go

How many of us fret over the past? As if there is no tomorrow? How many of us are struggling to keep something that needs to be loosened? How many of us work for our needs to be satisfied? I assume everybody does. It is a natural Phenomenon of human relationships towards human and things.
Living for the present moment is not possible unless one leaves behind what needs to be left. One of the things a person fails to recognize is the gift of the present and the essence of letting go of the past. Many people didn't get pleasure from today because of something that comes to pass in times of yore. People used to resent over a broken relationship or a mischievous acts of a friend. These are only few things that an individual grudgingly carry through out their life. Because they were hurt they will not accept love now. Because something unpleasant happen when they did something once, they once did something they are sorry for, they are sure they are bad people forever. because once someone did something to them, it is now all the other person fault that their life is not where that want it to be or simply they are angry to a certain situation. The admonishing truth is that anger spoils a person's mind, before we know it. It already contaminates our whole being. It is a poison that eats you from the inside and hatred as its outcome is a weapon we think that attacks the person who troubles us. However, hatred is a curved blade and the harm we do, we do to ourselves. When we hold to the past it is oftentimes because we are angry of it. Angry because we don't want to lose our once comfort zone. We get use to things. The fondness over it drives us to hold even if it allows us to a steady blaze of hurt aches and resentments.What we often refuse to realize is that we sacrifice the beauty of real experience of the moment. What are we going to do then is to release the needs. Sometimes we try to release a pattern, the whole situation seems to get worse for a while, however, this is not a bad thing. It is the sign that the situation is beginning to move. Our affirmations are working and we need to keep going. Sometimes the problem moves in different direction for example and you want to give up. You do smoke because you believe that it can help. Then suddenly on the process of doing so there are some sort of uncomfortable happening because this is your once comfort zone. However of you are accustom to it everyday you finally realize that it is only a matter of conditioning the mind. It is somehow nicer to think that thoughts created us and we create thoughts, therefore we can divert it..(if we want)It is a matter of paradigm shifting. To live life to the fullest is our choice. Don't allow pain to eat you up and putrefy you. Learn by heart that we are travelers in the thoroughfare. To glance flip side is a nice thing but to dwell in the road that you have traveled will never lead you to your aspiration...

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