Do not take human beings as your property

God has blessed us with many emotions such as love, fear, hatred , jealousy and so on. It is said that love is above all. Even saints can be found talking about love and favoring it. In Hindu religion Lord Krishna and Radha are famous for their love. You can also take the example of another Hindu God Shiva and Parvati. Love is not only the name of the feeling between two opposite sex persons. Love can be between anybody. It can be between mother and child. It can be seen among family members. It is an emotion which just fills the empty place wherever it sees.

A human being is known for having this feeling. Does having this feeling enough for calming that you love someone? Is anything else required for it?

The list of the persons claming love for their close ones is endless. On the top there is the name of parents who keep chanting that they love their children. Children also do not want to lose the chance to be included in this list. Husband and wife are also queuing up to get their names written. Blood relations like brother sister, sister sister and so on are also sticking to this list. Do they all people love one another?

As far as I feel the answer is no. We do claim loving others but we do not love others but ourselves. Parents just love their children till children are ready to live life according to their wishes. There are many cases in the society where parents just boycott their children for daring to have different thinking or life style.

Love of the children just evaporates when their parents get old and are unable to take care of themselves. Children just want to get rid off of them as early as possible. Parents are loved till they have either money or some usefulness.

Now talk about the reality of the love of husband are wife. In most of the cases a person is not able to achieve what he is capable of because of his life partner. Life partner just acts like a barrier on the way of progress. Many women are not able to shine their talent because their husbands do want them to go out and work. According to these husbands they are capable enough to give their wives all the comforts. And letting their wives mix up with others just hurts their ego. Those who allow their wives go out and work are also not the lovers. In most of the cases they allow because of the compulsion. In reality they do not have any concern with the talent promotion.

Women are also not behind in this race. Cooking, cleaning, ironing washing, serving themselves to their husbands for sex and brining up the children is the definition of the love for women They are also not bothered with the talent promotion theory. Many of the talents suffocate to death because of the women. Even the talking of the husband with another woman is enough to start MAHABHARAT. Most of the men are unable to concentrate on their work because of this tendency as a result they never achieve big.

Blood relations do not have any meaning. Brothers and sisters can be found fighting like street dogs for their parents property. They do not hesitate to drag one another to the court.

People take their love ones as their property. They are happy till their love ones live as they are guided to and dance like puppets. As soon as they deny acting in the guided way love vanishes and hatred takes the place of love.

Love does not mean selfishness. Love means sacrifice. If we really love someone we must be ready to keep our ego aside and help our love one develop. Helping our beloved shine his talent and live life of his dream is called love. So before claming that you love someone do peep inside you and ask DO YOU REALLY LOVE?

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