Sex life before marriage:-

Adding a few lines as to make things more clear:- The modern definition, applied to both men and women, goes something like this: If you have had sex (meaning penis-in-vagina, and sorry for sounding so clinical!), then you are not a virgin.)
When so much is said and done in the name of freedom to live and express does virginity has any more major roles to play. I think the time has come when we stop talking about being virgin and talk about the most relevant thing in the world, “ to have safe sex”. In this fast life everybody is in the rat race of getting better and better in life and for this one has to go through several stages in life. One of the important phases of life that happens in ones life is the teenage where both the girls and boys are exposed to the realities of life. They start to realize the hidden secrets of life and are mostly involved in the quest to find out more about it.
Lifestyle of people are changing so abruptly that its hard to stay back with the traditional way of living but flow with the tide. In the older days the virginity of women was considered to be important until she is married and handled over to her husband. But now things are not the same. Both men and women know that its hard for them to look for this criteria of being a virgin until they are married.
Its not that sex has become the ultimate thing in a relationship but it has become such an inevitable part that both men and women feel the need to be in sex to satisfy or complete their demands in a relation. This sharing between men and women cannot be called as LUST as both the men and women involved here does not look it to as lust but as a need to finish the circle of their relationship.
Once involved in sex they realize or they get to know more about the depth of the relation which may flourish and bloom and which might not take them to any more further steps ahead. Just like knowing about ones likes and dislikes, getting involved in sex too has become so common between the teenagers and those in a relationship before marriage.
Men in this generation have stopped giving importance to the womens virginity as they realize that being a virgin or not is not important but making the bond strong enough with the touch of love and trust is more important for them to make a happy human being. This must be a little hard subject to be digested but this is the reality of the present life style the youngsters are going through. So give your votes to safe sex and be at the safe side.
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my teacher say when i was in high school that is immoral... maybe u can give your body to guy you love but what if you were not really meant for each other?? is that all??
true!
sex is no longer that important nowadays because we are in the generation X...
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Are You suggesting that sex before marriage is OK?
well, as far as i read ur writing it seems that u do not protest pre-marital sex..this is a new idea from you yet i think it is questionable and debatable...i support the practice of safe sex though..
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Safe sex
is what I recommend and its upon each individual to make a choice to whether or not to have sex before marriage . To add to it I find both male and female have an equal right to make this choice in their life.
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I regret to find this article coming from you Dhanya ,
It does not reflect very well on you. There are certain matters here that I don't agree on. Young men will muck around but when it comes to marrying they tend to be more picky on who should share their world to the end. My eldest son is 31 and he has told me a few things of why he is not in a hurry to marry, things I wish you could have heard him say before you wrote this article.
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Recommending Safe sex ........
thats what I said here. You said it Sylvia , let me quote your words here
"Young men will muck around but when it comes to marrying they tend to be more picky on who should share their world to the end"
Now if the same words are said by a girl or a woman why are you finding it difficult to accept , that is where I want to turn your attention.
I would be happy if you could share with us what were the reasons your son gave you explaining why he was not in a hurry to get married.
When everything is talked and discussed about why should safe sex be not be discussed here and Our Writing Campus does have Catergory of Writings and I have put this article under Safe Sex and not Art of Living.
Facing reality is boldness not ignoring it and hiding the realities of life and I dont have any regrets in sharing this piece of article at WC.
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Safe sex or any sex before marriage is a no no
in the society I move in Dhanya, and thats what it is that divides the loose moralled from those brought up to value decency and respectability.
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Let me make it clear for you
Sex before marriage can never be caterogirsed to people with loose morals Sylvia.
You are saying so because you ignored to see the real life or want to close your eyes towards it. Think of two lovers, they are in love and love is not a time pass for them. Being in sex adds to their relations and neither of them are people with loose morals, before categorising people to a particular section please look into all the possibilities.
You have not yet mentioned about matters you wanted me to know before I wrote this article, I would like to know it Sylvia.
Pretence is not living. Facing the realities of life and not closing the eyes to the realities is what it all takes to make a living!!
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not good madam
you advise girls to lose virginity befor marriage?You only want them to be safe from diseases and enjoy life before marriage.Is it Indian culture?This blog will bring bad reptation to this decent site writing campus.
why should girls virginity be questioned here
Talking about safe sex and practicing it is always good for any community, let it be a girl or a boy and when this is a matter that is relevant and a subject not to be ignored how can it bring a bad reputation to WC.
I appreciate your thinking but instead of not speaking up and keeping it all within ourselves we are polluting the world, let it not happen anymore and lets all accept the truth and face it
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Marriage is not a sex experiment
I have many westerners learning Ayurveda from me and they have seen the world and they have come to conclusions that Indian marriage and values of marriage is for life and sex before marriage is not welcome and safe sex is like experimenting with one aniaml and if that animal does not satisfy you,you pick one more mate ,it is more like animals but some animals have mates for life.If we say that safe sex is ok,(but not in our culture) then it will mean that you can keep changing partners when ever you want and even after marraige it could happen causing more problems.So let us stop spreading wrong messages here.
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Padmini I recommend
you "read my blog " to understand that it was not meant the way you had misinterpreted it. I have written about safe sex before marriage. i was talking about the safe sex that should be practiced if into sex before marriage.
That clearly shows you dint go through my blog and commented me reading the commnets of others who very well said that they do not move in a culture where such things happen.
When you agree to young men to muck around why do you find it hard to accept the same with young women!!!
I never said not to stick to traditions and break loose, all I said was take care ....
You might be finding it difficult to digest as you want to live in a make belief that nobody has sex before marriage. Is that so Padmini pls explain
Its not traditions and values and Loose morals we are discussing here its Safe sex we are talkign about and spreading awareness.
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