The Game That We Play in Life

All of us are players in this world.A player that dreams to have the best things in life like achieving the main goal of our life that is to win or in other words to be successful.A success which is having all what we wanted to have or having a contentment in all the aspects of life.Sometimes we really have a dream which is so impossible but the thing is it is up to us or it is up to our destiny.To have the greatest success in all the aspects of life like in career, love, family, in exams, in sports and a lot more.

As a real player in this world we have to consider things that would really happen to us. This is the reality that really hurts us or make us happy because we cannot change it no matter what happens for the truth is this is not really for us to have.A good example is loving someone who cannot love you in return.It usually happens and sometimes you cannot do anything about it.Maybe some can win a heart but some will not.Another is in show business if you are an actor or actress who really wants to have a fame or stardom, if no people would be a fan of you what could really happen in the career.We should know that we should have other options to at least save us from this failures.For if we cannot do anything no matter we tried if it is not for us then we can still have something that could save us in the future.

The other thing that we should consider is the fact that in success we would experience first the thing called failure. A failure that is a spice that adds taste to our success.Failure are often the common mistakes we do in life such as being so negligent, or not doing things right.This failure can cause a lot of aches such as headache and heartache that really causes us too much pain, hatred, anger, shame and a lot of things that can describe the feeling of failing.Some people may insult or laugh at you.This can make you feelings of hurt and maybe you can lock up your doors and just be there until the people would forget it.But for some they take this as a challenge which is the positive way of overcoming this failure they have.For them it is true that this could really hurt but in the other hand they remain to stay up with heads up high for still it is a part of our life to fail.And work hard on it and would not commit another mistake.This is the right way that we should do in our life so that we will not have regrets for not doing anything.

Someone said that "life is not a game of chance".Rationalized it as "The creator did not put us where we would be in a sport of circumstances, to be tossed about by a cruel fate, regardless of our own effort.This is a question at the back of my mind for I was not really convinced at what that someone has said in a book.For It really depends on our destiny or fate.For there are still people who does not do anything but still they have the luck at there sides so it really depends.I questioned it because there are a lot of situations to consider first before making a conclusion.An example is a man who won the lottery when it was really his first time to draw.The effort was so easy he just draw his number and boom he was a winner.But for some other people they draw a lot of numbers and days but still they do not win.

So in things we should really think first and consider a lot of things to understand the game plan of life.We should have to understand carefully what are the meanings, the rules, and the situation we encounter.Trying to accept it most especially the hardships and failure that would teach us to overcome it for a better way of a successful life.

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