Signs of Love and Flirting Tips

FLIRTING TIPS

These are the right and wrong ways to show the object of your affection that you're interested in getting more personal:

Don't

turn away
scan the room
give a phony smile
Do

lean in toward the object of your desire
give a genuine smile
focus your eyes on your subject
tilt the head to the side

Is She/He Interested?

A man who is interested will ...

... hold your glance a little longer

... make eye contact, look away, then glance again in your direction. It's a sign that he wants to get to know you better.

... touch your arm, hand or shoulder lightly as you talk. The message is "I'm friendly."

... smooth his clothing or run a hand through his hair, which says, "I want to look good for you."

... lean in toward you.

... fondle a chain or cigarette. This is a sign that he wants more intimate contact.

... swagger and flex his muscles. This age-old display of masculinity is not much different than a peacock displaying his tail feathers!

... speak low so only you can hear, thus inviting you into his space and making the conversation exclusive between the two of you.

A woman who is interested will ...

... give a sidelong glance. In this coy, flirtatious gesture, the woman stares boldly while lowering the head and tilting it away, giving the message, "I am shy, yet bold."

... wink!

... run a hand over her exposed leg, indicating that more intimate contact is welcome.

... slip a shoe off and dangle it from the toes -- or remove an earring. These "undressing" signals are very suggestive and inviting.

... touch his thigh or knee. The length of time she allows it to rest there heightens the intensity of desire. Rubbing it back and forth provides a signal that's as clear as it gets.

HEAD TILTING

Men and women do this upon meeting. When it is accompanied by a smile, it says, "I'm a friendly person." Tilting the head while listening shows you are very interested. But a backward head tilt says, "I'm superior."

Shoulders: The shrug, raising one's shoulders, tilting the head to the side and extending the palms, says, "I give up." It's a way to show you are harmless and approachable.

Pigeon Toes: While most people don't look at the feet, standing with toes pointing inward is an inviting gesture. It's the bottom half's counterpart to the shrug.

More signals from her: These common body signals are directed toward a guy a woman find attractive.

* parting her lips and licking them

* stroking and flicking her hair

* massaging her head and neck

* crossing and uncrossing her legs

* pointing a knee in his direction

More signals from him: These common body signs are directed toward a woman a guy finds attractive.

* massaging his outer thigh

* narrowing his eyes while he is talking to her

* hooking his thumb in his belt loops

* adjusting his cuffs, flicking dust from his jacket or smoothing his hair

* stroking the jaw

* rolling a glass or pen between his palms

MORE LOVE SIGNALS

Do What I Do: unlike mirroring , which is a sitting or standing posture, isopraxism is "same behavior" -- walking in the same way, eating at the same speed or taking a sip of your drink together.

Eyelashes: This gesture is a dead giveaway that the hormones are racing. When the body is aroused, lashes flutter faster than a hummingbird's wings. Mascara and false eyelashes enhance this signal, making it impossible for a man to miss.

Self-Touching: When people are unsure of themselves in a social setting, they often wrap their arms around the torso, hugging themselves. This gesture controls anxiety. Likewise, when someone receives a romantic cue, he or she will often touch an earlobe or rub an arm, leg or the chest area.

The Smile: A simple, closed mouth smile is a courtesy and nothing more. An upper smile -- where the top teeth show -- is an invitation. An open smile -- where both top and bottom teeth show and the eyes crinkle -- is an out-and-out invitation to get sociable

HOW TO WIN HIM/HER
Sending signals with your body language can be much more powerful than the spoken word.

* Make eye contact: A longing look at the right moment that captures the attention of the other person should cause the heart to skip a beat. It says, "I've noticed you and I like what I see."

* Strike a pose: But make sure your posture is open and tells the other person you're available. Turn your body completely in the direction of your target.

* Smooth your hair. This is a signal that you want to look good for the person you are interested in. Do it when you know that person is looking your way. However, this gesture should not be overdone or you will appear vain and self-absorbed.

* Toy with your jewelry: If you're a woman, this is a sensuous way to tell a stranger that you're ready for some fun and adventure -- and that you wouldn't mind some company!
* Smile! :There's nothing more devastatingly attractive than a friendly smile with twinkling eyes If the smile is returned, you're well on your way to romance

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