Is there any harm in being possessive?

Most of the people are found advising others not to be possessive. The reasons behind it are many. According to people possessiveness is a relationship killer. It just adds bitterness in relationship. It makes us incapable of expressing our love towards our lover. In brief in their opinion possessiveness is a villain. Is possessiveness really negative? Should we try our best to kill it? Can it really vanish from heart?

First of all everyone must understand that possessiveness is one of the important emotions which helps us express ourselves. It helps us reflect our strong love feeling towards our lover. It is the best mean to tell our lover how much we love him. It is as clear as crystal that the emotion which has so much importance in our life should not be thrown out of our heart. In fact possessiveness automatically takes birth when love starts developing somewhere at a soft corner of heart. The life of possessiveness is as long as love’s. If you can not kill your love towards your lover you can never do so with possessiveness.

Basically there is no problem in being possessive. It seems us a problem only when we fail to understand its real worth. Instead of criticizing our lover for having possessiveness we should try to understand his love behind his actions. We must try to show ourselves closer to him. By this way he will have a feeling of emotional security and his heart will fill with lots of romantic feelings. After having so much positive emotions I think one can not quarrel. A little bit understanding from our side will help both of us live a contented life.

So dear friends what is your opinion?

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