Don't be mute spectators. Dare to take bold steps

Does a woman who is all in one and plays so many roles at the same time really get the reasonable reward for her selfless services towards her parents, husband, in-laws, children and society? What do you think? Is she being valued?

In my opinion she does not get that higher and respectful place which she really deserves. A woman is expected to be as tolerant as earth. In fact in Indian society a woman is compared with the earth and this mentality makes not only the society but the woman herself to expect more and more from her. She keeps serving others even after getting unfair treatment.

Actually a woman herself does not know her worth and thinks herself to be on the earth only to serve others. Till a woman keeps herself free from this thinking pattern no improvement is going to come in her situation and in society’s way of handling her. For the last some years a little bit change has come in a woman and she has become somewhat self conscious but still she has to go a long way for helping herself get that place for which she is capable and deserving.

In fact Bhagyalakshmi story about a woman made me think and write on this subject. I was moved after reading Bhagyalakshmi’s blog in which she mentioned a woman who went through a hell while living with her husband. She got separated after tolerating a lot. Bhagyalakshmi requested all the bloggers to help that woman by giving their suggestions. That woman needs suggestions to help her decide her course of life. I would request all the bloggers to give their suggestions. Here my suggestion is. . She should never go to the man again who had not only been a silent spectator of her tortures but also added fuel to the fire in her life.

As far as second marriage is concerned it should be her own decision. If she feels she can live a happy life with another man then she must go for it. But she must keep one thing in her mind while taking any decision and that is her children. It is seen that a step-father is rarely interested in taking care of wife's previous children. And when his own child comes in this world the conflicts just increase. As a single parent it is her responsibility to ensure her children a bright future. She must also think about herself.

Self respect is above the company of anyone. She may have to go through all the situations which made her life miserable in her first husband's house. If she feels herself bold enough to live life alone she can assure herself an independent and free life where nobody would be over her head to stop her from doing those things which she loves to do. Basically before taking any decision she must think over all the aspects deeply. I think nobody except her can take right decision for her.

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