Are Good Parents Really the Well-Wisher of the Child?
Parents are thought to be well-wishers of their child. They not only provide all comforts to the child but also fulfil his desires. They support him financially as well as emotionally. Even if they are passing through trouble they do not let trouble even touch him. However, there is a question. Do all these things make parents the well-wishers of their child?
Not at all. Helping and supporting the child is not bad, but not letting the child experience the ups and down of life is definitely not a good thing. Parents exactly do it. They fulfil all the desires of a child and as a result he becomes adamant and arrogant. Secure financial backing every time makes him incapable of understanding the value and importance of money. Getting money without hard work and headache inculcates the tendency of depending on other.
Parents’ so-called love does not stop here. They try to keep their child away from tension or day-to-day worries but they forget that tension is a part of life and happiness of life depends on the art of successful management of tension. Parents do not teach their child this art and just keep it with them. Now it can be easily understood whether parents are really the well-wishers of their child or not.
Vanshika
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Exactly my views Vanishka,
When my boys were growing up we made sure they had their everyday needs as any child in their class would have. They weren't given anything more than that would cause a another child to want, as not every parent could afford to give their children all the extras that some flaunt around. I always packed extra food and treats in their lunch boxes and encouraged them to share with a friend who hadn't brought any. We always instilled in them the value of money and nothing was freely extended.
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every parent loves his child
every parent loves his child and protects him/her from the ups and downs of life, but i don't think there is any doubt, whether they are our well wishers or not...obviously they are our well wishers!!
its only that some children get spoilt due to immense pampering...
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