Find a best friend with in yourself
Have you ever got hurt by the friend whom you consider to be very close to your heart? I am sure your answer is yes.
We need a friend with whom we can have heart to heart talk. As a friend we expect our friend to understand the problems faced by us and want to bring out whatever there is in our heart. But in spite of being friend sometimes he is not able to understand us. You must be thinking that if he is unable to realize our pain then how can he be our friend?
Definitely, he is our friend. Being a friend does not mean that he can not have different opinion or different way of doing a thing. Actually, it is thought that two persons having similar thinking get attracted towards each other and become friend. According to me notion of having similar thinking is an illusion. Two persons can not have similar thing in each and every thing they do or think. In some things they are of the same opinion and in some things their opinion differs. Where their opinion differs they are bound to have clash.
As far as I feel because of believing in similar thinking theory we get hurt and have anger towards our friend. In anger we blame each others for not behaving like a good friend. Having the feeling of being alone hurts us the most and we are unable to act wisely. Now the question ‘how to save ourselves’ crops up in our mind.
The best way to save ourselves from the hurt is to see with in ourselves and try to find out a friend there. As soon as he knows about our problem he comes forward for our help and relaxes our tensed nerves. After feeling relaxed our mind starts functionally wisely and realizes that having a different opinion to some extent can not become an obstacle in the way of friendship. Having realized it we are ready to have a patch up with our friend.
Vanshika
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Friends are gems
Thankfull entry
Friend are too important to resist.
While most people think that they can live happily without having a best friend and they also live happily. But the level of happiness of a person with a good friend is much more than a person without a friend. Also having a good friendship with somebody and sustaining it effectively is difficult. So, your article may be a step forward to understanding the complications of friendship in an improved way.
Friends act like life line
Thanks for the comment. IN my opinion it is not difficult to get a friend but to get a true friend is definately difficult. Most of the friends have desire to have materlistic gains from us but a true friend's intention is to help us progress. He/she is ready to sacrifice for us. He/she guids us, encourages us, sclods us if we are wrong, and above all he/she tries his/her best to understand us and solve our problems in a constructive way. A true friend is the most valuable gift of God to us.
Friends
friends remain friends forever if friendship does not have any expectations.we are our own friends was good.
Good article
Freinds are like the pillars of our life alongside our family. We need them for support and care but there are times when we like to be alone and don't want to talk to anybody. In such situations a best friend in your own self can be like virtual friend who is always available .