Should parents be blamed?

Now-a-days parents are disrespected, humiliated, tortured and are considered to be not more than an old thing. An old thing which is of no use now. Daily parents have to go through a hell. Children’s bad behavior is enough to make their heart weep but even the tears rolling out on the cheeks of parents are not able to disperse the clouds of children’s selfishness. Children are so much busy in their life’s beginning bright colors and foot taping music that even parents’ heart rending screams find themselves unable to attract their attention. The parents who spent their whole life in making their children’s dreams come true beg their children for fulfilling their daily needs like clothes, food and shelter but children are not ready to provide them even these.

Right now you must be having sympathy for parents. Don’t you have? But I don’t have. Surprised! As far as I feel parents themselves are responsible for their miserable condition. There is a problem in their upbringing. They are unable to inculcate those values in their children which are utmost necessary to help them become a good human being. The mistakes parents do while bringing their children bring negative repercussions with them in future. The mistakes parents do are
1. Parents develop a soft heart - It is the biggest mistake most of the parents do. I do not say parents should be like Hitler but they must be hard when children do something wrong. Parents just neglect their children’s mistake and want themselves to be free from the responsibility of punishing their children for wrong deeds by just considering their children immature. They forget that seeds grow into a massive tree. Same is the case with children. Today’s even a single bad habit can multiply and cause a great headache not only for children but also for parents in future.
2. Parents are unable to maintain discipline – Those children whose parents are unable to keep their children in discipline have to face problems in long run as because of lack of discipline children become irresponsible and most of time do what their moods says. When they grow up they do not listen to their parents.
3. Parents lack self respect – Parents just accept their children’s badness as their destiny. They just listen to their children and are still eager to live with them. Their this attitude just makes them not more than a beggar in their own children’s eyes and everyone knows how much respect a beggar gets. Parents are even ready to sacrifice their self respect just for the sake of the desire to live with their children. They do not fight back for the place they deserve.
4. They leave themselves empty handed – Parents spend even the last penny they have on their children as a result are empty handed. When children are unable to get any financial assistance from their parents they just start seeming them a burden. A burden from whom they want to get rid off as early as possible. At this old age when parents are unable to work to earn have no option then to act like slaves of their children and say them yes boss.
5. Parents do not respect their parents – children neglect their parents as a result in long run they are neglected by their own children.

Children learn what their parents teach them so it is the responsibility of the parents to help them to be in discipline even if it seems children like bitter medicine. Parents should never let anybody cross his limitations not even their children. Parents must have money as money can make them feel secure about their future and thus there will be no need for them to see their children for help. Parent should set and example before their children by giving all the respect and care to their parents. If parents keep all these things in their mind while bringing up their children I am sure they will not have to face any problem in old age and they will live and die a contented life.

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