What of the Bitch?
What of the Bitch? Many men have asked me to speak on the women commonly known as the bitches. Let us get to the general definition that most men and some women speak of when they are describing the Bitch. She can be rude, nasty, very mean, without natural affection for others, and emotionless. For the remainder of this post let us use the “B” word to describe this kind of woman. Right from the beginning we can see that anyone with this attitude would not be a happy person. I have had guys tell me that in a bar or club some women are “B’s” and they enjoy this. What most men do not realize is that this attitude is reactionary not primary.
We are all the produce of previous experiences and these things do have an affect on our behavior. As an example studies show that more than 40% of all women will experience some unwanted sexual experience in their lifetime. Add to this the high-tension environment that has most of the world unbalanced and you get a recipe for disaster. In the high-tension produced world that we live in we have caused men and women a like to lose touch with others. Society has us believing that we are not in this journey together. We have promoted separateness and individuality to a fault. I was recently asked how a girl in a club could be a “B” and enjoy it. Let us rephrase the question to find an answer. How can some people enjoy being mean. Here is the key… no one is born wanting to be mean it becomes part of a persons personality in response to other factors.
As an example there are many women who have told me that the lack of power in their male dominated families growing up made them enjoy treating men bad in response as they matured. Also many times the “B” is not really directing her meanest at you, she could be directing it at any number of people. Her Father, Uncle, or even her Mother. I knew one woman who would be described as a “B” by most people. She would sabotage every relationship she was in. After speaking with her for a good length of time I discovered that her anger was really directed at her mother. She hated her mother in many ways. She had so much pent up anger towards her mother that it would be taken out on the different men she would date. There is a lot of anger in the world from many deep emotional issues. Why are millions receiving treatment for stress related illnesses? Literally over 100 million people are receiving help due to stress. But we are told to be strong, always be in control and act like everything is great. This is the product of a world where separatism is the norm.
Many children who mistreat animals often think it is enjoyable but after getting to root of the child’s problem the child cannot believe they use to act in such a horrible way. You can be mean and actually think you enjoy it but you really don’t, it is a mask to hide a deeper issue. It is always a lack of love somewhere.
Being a “B” is all about taking back control. It does not have to stem from sexual or physical abuse. It could be a spoiled girl who was never told “No” by her parents and now will only respect men who are a challenge for her. The causes are too many to list here. Get our Ebook “How to attract anyone you want “and learn how to finally WIN at dating.
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Dear letstry,
I agree but to disagree with you that only some people / ladies are (bitches) mean. Most of us are mean people at one time or the other and we justify it with " there is a deep rooted reason for that". what these ladies might have is frustation, or some pent up anger and they r real rude. but then we can't call them bitches just because of their attitudal problems. Real mean people are those who spoil your life with their sugar coated words and actions. These ladies are in fact showing us that they have a problem there which they cant handle alone and need help. But the real poison is in that gentlemans words which ruins your life for ever.
hope next time when your friends tell you a "bitchy "story you will correct them& ask them to help that person.
good luck!
Hello Letstry,
Deep within is a hurt or disillusioned person giving vent.
Have a great day
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