Great Flirting Tips for Ladies

1) Sense or Humour works

Having a good time is infectious and who doesn't love being around positive, funny? Spread good feelings and get yourself into the right state of mind for making a good first impression. Focus on positive things and keep the conversation light and funny. Feel good about yourself and you'll find people will be drawn to you.

2) Your Signals should be clear

Sorry girls but its true, a large number of men are notoriously bad at interpreting signals from women. Smiling and happy gestures may just mean you are a friendly kind of girl. Avoid sticky situations by knowing what you want when you flirt and make sure your signals are clear. If you genuinely want to meet guys then by all means flirt, just make sure you know how to separate the sexual flirting signals from the 'hi, I'm friendly' flirting signals.

3) Do not Sit Like an ice Queen

Learn to be warm and friendly. Sitting like an ice queen will not attract people to you and you may unconsciously be giving out 'no no' signals when secretly you are keen for someone to approach you. Check what signals you are sending and if it's not getting the results you want, adjust them. Why not ask friends to give you some feedback?

4) Do not Fear Rejection

Sometimes things don't work out for whatever reason. The reality is that everyone has experienced rejection in one area of their life. Don't dwell on negative responses, instead look out for compliments, take them in and shrug off rejection.

5) Make your Appearance Appealing

Dress the way you like and feel good about. It will increase sex appeal. adore yourself with a light make-up. Have a broad smile and nice manners. Darling, you have to work on it otherwise you are not going to make it.

6) Let Your Body Talk

What is the secret behind a woman's mesmerising effect on men? Flirting with style. We can all do it. We just need to learn the secrets. The good news? The ability to flirt is innate; it's about confidence and being able to sensually inhabit your body. The other key is understanding body language. Girls may worry about what we say but in fact it's our bodies that do most of the talking. Communication is 60 per cent non-verbal and only 40 per cent verbal. So watch what your body is saying. Researchers say you can heighten your powers of attraction by about 70 per cent if you can improve your body talk.

7) Confidence is Sexy

Confidence is probably the most attractive of all traits. Give yourself a pep talk before you go out and tell yourself you're fabulous.

If you need a little help in the confidence department, fake it till you make it. Find a role model you can copy, think Madonna or Marylin Monroe. Imagine how that person would act, feel and move. Think of what qualities make her attractive and how she expresses these physically when she moves and talks.

8) Listen Up to Men

The most underrated flirting skill is simply listening. Men love talking about themselves. They like being the centre of attention. Ask open-ended questions - that is, questions that can't be answered by a yes or no answer. Lower your chin, look him in the eyes and nod as he speaks - make him feel like the most interesting and amusing man alive.

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