When is "Enough" Enough?

It is written in the Bible that you have to forgive not just once or twice but 7 x 77 times. Being in a relationship, will you do this? How many chances will you give in a relationship?
It’s not wrong to forgive and give second chances, but, if your partner keeps on hurting you and doing the same mistakes over and over, maybe that’s way out of line already and you’re on your way to the martyrdom.
Being a martyr means being masochistic. Masochistic is when you’re letting yourself be hurt by someone and hurting your own self physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually. Will you let this happen?
Relationship means give and take. Don’t just give and give or take everything. Try to balance everything. Learn how to say “NO” to others especially to yourself. Enough is enough when you feel that you’re not happy anymore, when both you and your partner have lost respect for each other already, if you see yourself cry at night, when you feel like you’re already taken for granted, if you feel like you’ve given your all you’ve got, when trust is broken and when there’s nothing left for you anymore.
You’re given a chance to live so live life to its fullest. Do the things that can make you happy. Don’t hide from your fears, face them. Don’t tell God you have a big problem instead tell your problems you have a big God.

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