Cultivating a pleasant personality

The word " pleasant personality" is much talked about mostly as a fad which may fade with the passage of time. Little is known or understood what it really means.
Pleasantness is not to be seen as a particular behavioral pattern or as a privilege of the cream of society. Not even belief in yourself can be of help anyway.
When you are pleasant inside, that pleasantness reflects in your outward behavior. The behavioral pattern always follows the kind and pleasant instincts. We only give what we have. If there is only negativity within us, that is what comes out of us. The goodness within us radiates from within and attracts good will and good words from everyone around us. Bitterness broods bitterness. People always like demonstration of good will and love from others.
It also means that we need to be good inside to ourself as well as to others. We need to accept ourself as a package to be able to accept others in the same way.
Pleasantness is always inborn and not learnt and the behavior patterns germinating from the pleasantness within, are also inborn.
Let us endorse virtues for a change and let this change make us pleasant personalities that we have been yearning to be.

Technorati Tags: Personality Development

Vote Result

Score: 0.0, Votes: 0