Depression Aggravates An Ailment

Early morning of May 28,2008, I clashed with my sister. It all started with a very small issue. But, for her it was to no excuse when it fell to her net. When she gave orders for errand she usually missed to say it in a nice way. She could not even miss to say a name tag "stupid" to me. Almost always she convicts me of a crime "a failure" after any thing done in the errand. She used to be subjective to everything she wants me to do.

At that moment,the issue was when I was asking a clarification regarding the three-female plug outlet which was bought yesterday, May 27,at the hardware which was to be replaced with a four-female plug outlet, and also to buy a new two-female plug outlet. All were to be fixed on wooden surfaces. She was infuriated with my querry. For her she does not like a person who could not outrightly understood her instructions. To me, I usually observed her to be too hasty, tensed, and presumed a subordinate to have fully grasped her words. In giving instructions and orders, she even misses to give further specification, explanation, and detail to an object or subject. Thus, I am usually moved to demand for an explanation.

The only thing I did was to give my comment regarding her usual attitude. I told her the thing she does not have in this life time is "patience". That is why she used to get angry to a stimuli all they way just because of lack of "patience". Further, I told her "We all are common mortals who commit mistakes. What makes me to get some failures is a wrongly delivered instructions or orders".
Even if my words were softly spoken, she had flown to such a terrible rage and said many bad words about me. She recalled many benefits I received from her including the medical check up in at Cebu Doctors' Hospital and medication I had for my ailment in February, March, and April 2008. Our househelper present in the scene could comment that it was all unnecessary reactions to a well-said querry, and an unjustifiable act of anger. For if you strive to be nice to anybody that reaction was uncalled for.

To avoid further trouble, I set aside leaving her cockling to the top of her voice and satisfaction. Though, I already felt inside the inhuman treatment. If not of my reply to her bad comments, I should have left her unaware of her bad cause unknowing of it as a mistake. Well, I knew then that my answer was a good one and nicely said. But, it struck her ego.

When the noise in the house stopped, I received a text message from her husband overseas asking about our present condition in the house. I wished she would not have reported to her husband, for there were many instances that she threatened me to be reported to her husband for having caused her much misery at home. To her, she could make reasons of getting angry with me due to my constant use of her computer resulting to rise of monthly electric bill and the repair. Though, I immediately told my sister that her husband had texted me and it might be for her. She replied she received the same text and told me to reply. There was no time to reply for I was told to get hurry to the hardware to have the item replaced and buy an additional one. When I came home, I saw my sister talking to her husband on the phone. There was a sudden change of mood as they had a pleasant conversation. My expection of something bad was erased.

At lunch time, my sister inquired if I do still have medicines for my esophagilities and gastritis. But, the sudden good treatment could not have good effect to pacify an aching heart.It may even aggravate my ailment of which she does not know. Her rage usually causes me to get nervous and experience pain in the solar plexus. If not mistaken, it strikes the esophagus.

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